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The Five Leadership Saboteurs

November 1, 2023

Common Leadership Challenges that hold leaders back

In my work with leaders, one of the biggest challenges managers face when they are promoted to a leadership position is shifting from using their technical expertise that they were previously rewarded for as an individual contributor, to focusing on the leadership competencies required to be effective in their new job.  

This is especially hard for leaders who were promoted from within. It’s very easy and tempting to keep doing what you were doing before because you know how to do the jobs of your team members. In addition, these were the skills you utilized to earn the promotion, and we naturally think that continuing to use those skills will lead to more success.

Even leaders who mentally know they should be focusing on the leadership elements of their job often can’t resist the temptation to stay in the weeds.

They feel like they are accomplishing things throughout their day, but these smaller tasks and emergencies are not the right things.  These managers often make excuses as to why they can’t find time to coach, develop, connect, and provide feedback, because they have convinced themselves that there is no time. They lack the mindset and skills to shift into the key result areas necessary for their success.  

To be successful, leaders should focus on the three pillars of exceptional leadership:

  • Create Clarity:

Leaders must consistently share the vision and the path for employees, so they know where to focus their attention. Leaders need to inspire employees by sharing how their contributions fit into the strategic goals, and then set clear expectations, goals, and deadlines. In many cases, managers may need to create clarity daily, so employees understand the priorities. This requires the skill of zooming in and out. Zooming out to see the broader strategic picture of what needs to be done, while anticipating obstacles and adjusting priorities, and then zooming in to focus yourself and your staff on what needs to be done in the short-term.  

  • Caretake the Culture:

Developing relationships with each team members and understanding how to adjust your leadership style to bring out each employee’s best performance is an important element of success. Leaders should be spending a significant amount of time coaching, developing, and providing honest, consistent, and meaningful feedback. When an employee struggles, managers need to facilitate a respectful, honest discussion and provide support and direction. Leaders also need to be approachable, and foster cohesiveness and constructive conflict among their staff. Your job as a leader is to create a positive and results-driven culture, while reinforcing and managing the company values.  

  • Consistency and Results:

Every company is in business to achieve results. Leaders must model accountability, create structures that instill accountability, be on top of your own priorities, as well as continuously focusing your staff on the short term and long-term goals that lead to results. Leaders must be able to coach employees to focus, remove roadblocks, and make timely and thorough decisions.  

Continuing to work in the technical is a common leadership mistake and it holds leaders back from making the necessary shift to creating success in a leadership role. This results in new (and tenured) managers not focusing on the areas that are essential to leadership success like coaching team members, building connections, facilitating results, adjusting your leadership style, and delegating. These are all essential elements for successful leadership, but most managers were not taught how to do these things effectively. When you’ve had no training or preparation for this shift, it’s natural to just do what you were doing before and commit common leadership mistakes.

I call this managing by default. Managing by default is staying in the weeds and doing what you have always done.

Operating this way results in sabotaging your success as a leader.  

Although there are many negative habits that can hold leaders back from success, in my experience, new managers (and tenured managers and executives!) struggle with five areas that tend to keep them from being influential and successful leaders. Most of these five saboteurs have one thing in common—they stem from managers focusing on technical expertise.

The five most common leadership challenges that hinder success:  

1. Lack of Self Awareness

Understanding your own style and preferences, as well as the differing preferences and styles of your team, is important so you can adjust your style for each employee. Many managers lack the self-awareness about the impact their behaviors have on their staff. This typically results in a more transactional, task focused style of leadership.

2. Lack of Focus

When managers are focused on the technical, they don’t prioritize the time necessary to coach, provide feedback, and lead their team. Staying in the technical creates a cycle of busyness that makes it difficult to be successful. These leaders are not focusing on the right things, and are activity focused rather than people focused.  

3. Lack of Delegation

Many managers mistakenly believe that their technical expertise is the value they bring to the credit union. Again, these managers tend to focus on activities, and fail to delegate the necessary tasks that will free up their time to create clarity and caretake the culture. Some leaders also feel they have to control everything to ensure the best outcomes. This results in micromanaging their team instead of empowering ownership on their team by delegating appropriately.

4. Lack of Team Engagement

Many managers are more transactional and focused on outcomes, and don’t spend any or enough time on leading people. When managers are in the weeds and dealing with issues and emergencies all day, they don’t have time to focus on relationships. In addition, some managers don’t have the skills to properly engage their team, and take a traditional approach to management, which is rarely effective in today’s work environment.  

5. Conflict Avoidant

When leaders avoid dealing with challenging or underperforming employees, it takes a toll on their team and decreases productivity and engagement. Putting off important conversations allows things to fester and frustrates other employees. A critical element of leadership is dealing with tough situations timely, so that you preserve the positive culture in your organization.  

Leaders who struggle with any one of these five saboteurs will find it challenging to be effective long-term, and many managers struggle with more than one.

Exceptional leaders understand that their responsibility is to facilitate results from their team through fostering connections, consistent coaching, and feedback, and by focusing their energy and time on the three pillars of leadership.  

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Migdalia Cruz
October 10, 2024

I really love and enjoy this reading. Reading this I learned that when you speak out clearly you thoughts and ideas people see you as winner, because you are not afraid to go straight to the point.

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Todd Smith
July 11, 2024

Great article.....And happy belated birthday! Welcome to my world, young lady!

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Reply from Laurie:
Thanks so much, Todd!
Beverly
December 19, 2023

Whenever I have a work project that I keep putting off - I think about delegating that project to someone else - which accomplishes 2 things- it gets the project done and frees us my brain space thinking about it.

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Reply from Laurie:
Absolutely, Beverly! We create more time for ourselves, and we can release the mental stress it is taking up.
Melissa Smith
December 7, 2023

Good morning. I loved this read. Thank you so much for sharing. Sincerely, Melissa :)

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Reply from Laurie:
You're welcome, Melissa! Thanks for your comment.
Anonymous
November 29, 2023

Thank you for this blog Laurie. I liked most part and specially "As organizations have become more complex, there is a tendency to require employees to do more with less. This is a slippery slope, and often can result in employees feeling overwhelmed and burnt out. One of the biggest contributors to this is not evaluating resources during the strategic planning process." I will use this practice "A best practice is to do what I call Priority Planning—putting important practices on your calendar ahead of time so they become a priority in your day. Examples of activities to Priority Plan include scheduling recurring coaching sessions with each team member, time for strategic thinking and planning, vacations, doctor appointments, important children’s events, and blocks of time for focused work on projects." To be more effective, I will get a good rest so I can have enough energy in the morning. I will read the blog again along with the other links on employee evaluation. Thank you so much Laurie. Best wishes to you and your family.

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So glad you will be implementing these things!
Tracey
October 23, 2023

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October 23, 2023

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lynn beisel
October 20, 2023

I love the feedback on the more than 50 hours of work. AND filling time. So true. Unfortunately, showing that you work longer hours is still seen as being a "hard worker" - not sure how to change that though.

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Reply from Laurie:
Lynn, I agree that working longer hours is still seen as working "hard" in our culture. I wish this was an easy shift. Our society needs to redefine what being productive means--not related to hours, but true productivity, which I find is not related to hours, but is related to focus. I do think leaders in organizations can model great boundaries and set the tone for their culture. Thank you for your comment!
Krystle
September 26, 2023

I enjoyed the read. I concur that transitioning from technical skills to delegating results was a task within itself. I did not realize I was almost trying to do the same thing from my previous position, and it was not working. However, I am seeing the results of how delegating daily tasks makes my job and workload easier. Thank you, Laurie.

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Reply from Laurie:
Thank you, Krystle! I think this is something most managers are challenged with when shifting from a more technical role to a leadership role. Delegation can really help free up time for the leadership aspects of our job.
Anonymous
August 29, 2023

Thank you for sharing information about your trip Laurie! All 3 things resonate with me - probably #1 being the biggest. I know when I'm gone for a week, I'm still thinking about work and need a vacation when I get back because I did not relax enough. I think your idea of a longer vacation is definitely in my future!!

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Reply from Laurie:
I think it takes me a week to just wind down before I can really relax. My goal next year is to take at least one two week (rather than one week at a time) vacation!
Perry Crutchfield
August 22, 2023

Hey Laurie, My take on your list - 1 - everyone has a story - listen 2- social media causes interpersonal problems 5- generational differences create hurdles / earn it you aren't entitled / we should help them get there not give it to them 6 AMEN some leaders I would have followed thru Hell, some I wish - well, you know 7- true BUT be as good as your word and 14- Hopefully we leave some good from our efforts, I know the good leaders I have had have. Seen a lot in my career but it really comes down to treat others the way you want to be treated, fair, honest, and straight forward. Good read. Take care

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Reply from Laurie:
I always appreciate your perspective, Perry! I so agree with you that we should treat others with respect, just like we want to be treated. I have also had leaders that I would follow anywhere, and others who I have learned what NOT to do!
LISA KINNEY
August 16, 2023

I love this so much and thank you so much for sharing! I really just love realizing that enjoying the simple things sometimes is the best! Also recognizing that what is important and fun to you may not be everyone else's fun on the on the trip. “Do we get to keep these toiletries?” was my favorite!!!! :):) Glad you had a great time and got to spend it with your family!

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Reply from Laurie:
I am so glad you are enjoying the blog post Lisa!
Sandra
August 15, 2023

I very much resonate with lesson no 3! Thank you Laurie

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Reply from Laurie:
Thanks, Sandra!
Beverly Zook
August 14, 2023

I think the part that you might have missed in their top 5 things, some of which were not "Italian" or even different from home, all of them happened with you, both of you. And i think that is what they will remember too. And you've got tons of photos that will remind them of what the Sistine Chapel looked like - then they might remember what it sounded like or smelled like. Oh- and i agree with you 100% about sleep!

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Reply from Laurie:
You are so right Bev--it was really about the experience of traveling together. I have on my list to create an album from our trip so we can look back and remember everything we did!
Tracey
August 14, 2023

LOTS of great take-aways from this post! Thank you for posting! I especially love "slow down to speed up". That's a keeper!

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August 14, 2023

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Anonymous
August 14, 2023

the not getting enough rest to be at my best. definitely need to get more quality sleep and make that a priority

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Sandi Richardson
August 10, 2023

It really is hard to narrow down the 3 lessons into one because they are all so interconnected. You need to give your mind and body THE TIME to relax SO THAT you can enjoy the SIMPLE THINGS, including REST. I enjoyed that lesson as a whole. I will take that lesson with me on my next vacation (or staycation). As always, thank you Laurie for your candor and for sharing your own lessons with others so that we too can benefit.

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Reply from Laurie:
Yes, Sandi! Love how you pulled all those lessons together!
Andrea C.
August 10, 2023

Great information and reminders

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Thank you, Andrea!
Arlene Byrd
August 10, 2023

Laurie, Thank you for sharing your trip and these nuggets. The lessons that resonate most with me are it does take time to relax and getting proper rest. When you devote 15 plus hours of your day for work, taking care of home and others; the 6-7 hours you lay down does not cut it! For me during this time I'm trying to unwind and find myself thinking fighting not to think about what I have to do tomorrow. Even after I create a to do list for the next day...I find things I need to add. Taking a day off here and there doesn't cut it as well because of all the plans you have for that day. I try to make sure my Mental Health Days remains just that.... time for me to laugh, cry, scream.... whatever I need to release the cares and stress!

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Reply from Laurie:
Yes, Arlene! We spend so much of our time working and often taking care of others, that it can feel challenging to even find time to unwind and rest. I am working on building more margin into my schedule and blocking time off next year for some extra days off to really disconnect and relax.
Stephen Wallace
August 10, 2023

Really enjoyed the article... and all very true!

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Tracey
August 10, 2023

Since I was already well aware of #1 (I'm in the same boat with taking a long time to relax), I think I'm resonating most with #3. I'm learning to prioritize sleep / rest and it's been wonderful. Love that you said "I love sleep.". :)

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Reply from Laurie:
Yes, Tracey, I love my sleep and I prioritize it! I feel a huge difference in my energy and focus if I lose even one hour of sleep. I know a lot of people struggle to get good rest, and for some it is not easy.
Anonymous
July 28, 2023

Welcome back from vacation. Well deserve! Action is the key to success. Shoulder to shoulder, coaching and delegating task to help other employees grow are very important. It is a sacrifice that one must do. Forget about yourself and be with your team day in and out to help them grow, is not always easy. On the long run, your team is stronger, and you can depend on them for the success of the organization. Thank you so much!

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Reply from Laurie:
Absolutely agree--action is important for any success. And as a leader, we have to take action--connect with our team, make time for coaching, and showing appreciation. Thanks for your comments!
Sandra
July 26, 2023

So many great tips here, thank you!

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Reply from Laurie:
Thanks so much, Sandra!
Tracey
July 14, 2023

I am so impressed you're able to disconnect and these are great tips I'll be sure to try on my next trip!

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Reply from Laurie:
Let me know how it goes, Tracey! :-)
Becca Levian
July 14, 2023

Such a great post - so inspiring!

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Reply from Laurie:
Thank you, Becca!